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I Love You, I Love You Not (1996)

PG-13 | | Drama, Romance | 28 August 1996 (France)
Prep school student Daisy and her European-born grandmother Nana share the sad stories of their lives: Daisy tells Nana of her romance with young Ethan and problems in school because she's ... See full summary »


Billy Hopkins


Wendy Kesselman (play)


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Cast overview, first billed only:
Jeanne Moreau ... Nana
Claire Danes ... Daisy / Young Nana
Jude Law ... Ethan / SS Officer
James Van Der Beek ... Tony
Kris Park ... Seth
Lauren Fox ... Alison
Emily Burkes-Nossiter Emily Burkes-Nossiter ... Jessica
Carrie Szlasa Carrie Szlasa ... Jane (as Carrie Slaza)
Natasha Wolff Natasha Wolff ... Hope
Josiah A. Mayo Josiah A. Mayo ... Chris
Brandon Danziger Brandon Danziger ... Josh
Alex Ballar ... Alex
Elzbieta Czyzewska ... Dora
Frederick Neumann Frederick Neumann ... School Principal
Peter F. Hopkins Peter F. Hopkins ... Mr. Douglas


Prep school student Daisy and her European-born grandmother Nana share the sad stories of their lives: Daisy tells Nana of her romance with young Ethan and problems in school because she's Jewish; and Nana tells of her young years under Nazis when she was sent to ghetto and then to concentration camp. Written by Anonymous

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Drama | Romance

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Rated PG-13 for brief strong language and teen drinking | See all certifications »

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Release Date:

28 August 1996 (France) See more »

Also Known As:

Me quiere, no me quiere See more »

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New York, USA See more »

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Not horrible but not really good either
3 March 2000 | by Monika-5See all my reviews

This movie was 80 minutes long??? It seemed twice that! I Love You, I Love You Not is certainly not horrible, but it's not a movie I'd really care to watch again.

I was strolling through Blockbuster searching for a film to watch over the weekend when this particular one caught my eye. Even though I'm not a Claire Danes fan (though she did a fine job in Little Women), I saw Jude Law's name and knew I had to rent it. I was disappointed. This film is contrived, cliched, and doesn't know whether to be totally serious or humorous. It fails on all counts (especially the hokey scene at the school assembly)!

The narrative of this movie is totally choppy, and the Holocaust scenes and the school scenes don't seem to blend in well together. If they'd focused solely on the romance of Jewish Daisy and Gentile Ethan the film might have really gone somewhere. This is not to say that Jeanne Moreau doesn't shine as Nana, she absolutely radiates.

Claire Danes gives an OK performance, and had the role and the story in general been better, she could've done a terrific job as Daisy. And what about Daisy's parents? They are almost never mentioned. What exactly is her relationship with them?

The true saving grace is Jude Law as Ethan. We can see why he is entranced by Daisy, as she is not the "typical" cheerleader giggly type who hangs all over him. We understand how he gives in to the prejudice around him when it comes to Daisy and his friends. I believe, especially after Mr. Law's success in The Talented Mr. Ripley, he is going to take Hollywood by storm and make all sorts of great movies.

Let's just hope they're all better than this one!

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